- Why are you not married ? Nepalis always ask . - 1. marriage is a crap idea about making promises for way into the future that you cannot keep "love until death" etc - 2. I live in the real world not a romantic TV dream. On TV and in movies there is always suddenly a beautiful woman who is just right for the man.
- I think that the number of women I have a conversation with is like 1 for every 100 men and 98% of women are married.. so conversation time must be something like 95% with men 4% in mixed company .. like in a family or office so call that 97% men, 2% women who are surely married and 1% maybe married. I think we can say that almost 80% of the 1% are married so 0.2% are single (1 in 500), 20% of them are within my age so that's 0.04% of people I meet are single women within my age so what's that ? I'd have to speak to 2,500
people before I speak to 1 single/unmarried woman my age range. .. and that's including ugly, boring women and even then 90% won't like me - All the people I meet are men : the bus drivers and conductors, restaurant staff, hotel staff all the workers at the cybercafe etc. I can't even remember the last time I spoke to a woman my age. I meet male tourists my age, but in the last month I have spoken to 3 retired old women.
- There must be 50% of the population are women, but they somehow live in a different universe .. in their jobs are nurses and teachers and always with their families instead of in public places. I don't meet thieves cos of the evasive action you take within he first few seconds of noticing potential threats so maybe it's the same for women ..like I don't want to hassle them so I always ask directions from men etc. Sometimes women are in public places, but it's like the Harry Potter train platform 13 it's there, but you have to slip into another dimension to see it. I don't want to hassle women like I see agressive men do so I leave them alone. However I have no problem in initiating conversation in appropriate circumstances like when someone is sitting next to you in the bus, in the lobby of the hotel you are staying at or someone is sitting opposite you in a restaurant etc.
- But I have never given my business card to any women I fancied cos the only time I see someone I fancy she is on the opposite side of the street. Yes there are sometimes some beautiful women in a whole day of watching city crowds you see a few
But beautiful women seem to be in a different universe
- bus - I cannot remember the last time I sat next to a sat next to a woman under 50 on a bus, sometimes I have seen beautiful women on a bus, but they are always with their husbands.
- restaurant/ hotels - I don't go to expensive places : Occasionally I have spoken to women at restaurant/ hotels , but usually it's like a retired woman sometimes it's women who are too young or married, but never a beautiful single woman my age. The restaurants/hotels I use are mostly cheap, so I guess women stay away ... 90% of the clients are men so I have spoken to lots of men at restaurants.
- Activities - I think most popular activities like cinema, pubs etc are crap and a waste of money .. I am more likely to be in the museum or hiking on the mountain so I meet interesting old men, but no women.
- Avoiding the touristy places : I tend to stay away from the touristy places and go to more remote/unusual places which are a little more dangerous so women stay away .. maybe I should be hanging out at expensive popular places ?
- Hotel, restaurant and bus workers are all men
- I think women take evasive action to avoid being hassled by men like they travel in pairs groups etc.
- I don't know how to remedy the situation except by changing to be a completely different person.
- STOP PRESS pc481t : I just went to place where there were dozens of dolled up women ... many pretty good looking. ... And where was this ? .... at the bloody temple ! (It was temple fund raising festival) ... I wouldn't want anything to do with any woman stupid enough to believe in religion.
- Doesn't matter if you are good looing like George Clooney : In the movies it's easy for George, but in the village it would actually be difficult for him to find a girlfriend. The women would think "I don't believe this guy is interested in me, he's too above my level".
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