Love is a useless word... it's not a word I use 

I think sometimes women experience joy during sex, but unable to say "I like sex", but instead convince themselves that this joy is "love" for the boyfriend. When actually they would experience the same joy with another compatible partner. Capiche ? Xxx

Imagine if there was a word "dof " which meant all shades of blue, green and grey. You could say look the grass is dof, the sea is dof, the sky is dof and look now it's raining so it's dof." What a useless word and yet the word "love" is the same. It's a word I never use. It's symptomatic of a modern world governed by vagueness & assumptions. And easy for  authorities like politicians, religions & media to exploit.   They say : you  love God, love your parents, love your fellow man don't you  .. And so it's so easy to say yes. 

They say to the soldier "if you love your country you must kill these men".

Does it mean, like, like a lot, respect, be infactuated by or stupidity ? 

Marriage vows "to love until death", how stupid ... can anyone be 100% sure of their future emotions.

Sure 99.9% of people  use this word still I think they are wrong. 

I think sometimes women experience joy during sex, but are unable to say "I like sex", but instead convince themselves that this joy is "love" for the boyfriend. When actually they would experience the same joy with another compatible partner. Capiche ? 

cos hollywood says love exists & is  easy to find ;we feel so sad when we don't find it.  If you find a good banana today you can enjoy it. If next year you find a better banana you can change. 

I think the word "love" is bad for the world, to make good decisions you need truth & facts yet the "love concept" encourages imprecision & lying. If in the middle of sex someone says "you love me, don't you ?", it's easy to say "yes of course". 

What you mean is 1. I am attracted to you 2. I trust you 3. I have loyalty to you. 
There's rules of society : Mr Z might be attracted to woman X more than  his girlfriend Y.  But he should not fuck X tomorrow.